Attraction Series

Did I Meet My Twin Flame?

Meeting the twin flame is a very strong connection. Stronger than any other connection you feel with any other person. People often dream about meeting theirs and others find, in retrospect, they did meet theirs but the relationship ran its course and went down in flames. So, how do you know if you meet your twin flame? There are a number of ways to tell.

You’ll think you met your fe/male version and it will feel like you’ve known them forever

Now, the twin flame is the second half of your soul. That means you will meet the person who not only completes you but is like the male/female version of you.

You will feel like you’re meeting yourself- your same messed up sense of humor? They likely will either share it or not be put off by it. You will feel a natural connection with them- it will feel like you have known them much longer than you actually have. Both of those are related- because you both will be so much alike that it will be a natural chemistry. That’s why it can be difficult to hold on to them. The connection is so intense that you will move fast and you will both keep the chemistry for a long time.

You will feel natural with them

You will likely have this connection with others as well, but you will never feel insecure around them. You will feel naturally at ease and it’ll feel like no matter what, you can be yourself. You will want to be around them and they will want to be around you and you will be able to feel that they will accept you no matter what.

They will push you to really grow

The whole concept of meeting this person is internal growth. You will want to grow as a person and they will want to see you grow. They will be by your side while you’re doing it and you will both be on the same page. You will grow with them and they will have you to lean on during the rough times, and you can lean on them during those times as well.

Growth will come naturally

This relationship is what helps you grow as a person, so it will naturally come to you when you’re with this person. They will challenge you and you will challenge them and both of you will experience a lot of personal growth during your time together. This is also why the relationships don’t always work out. Personal growth is a very important part of this relationship, so it’s not always meant to be a lasting relationship and you can be just as happy with a soul mate as you can with your twin flame (although the twin flame will always come to mind, it doesn’t always have to be romantically and you can learn to be happy in other relationships)

You can never stay mad

You will fight, argue but you can never stay mad at each other for long. You will find that you forgive this person much easier than other people and you both will make up every time you argue.

You’re both highly spiritual and have a spiritual connection

You both are driven to a higher spirituality. You both are wanting to grow and you’re wanting to grow together. The twin flame will come into your life when you’re going to be going through a higher phase of growth, so they will come in and push you to really come to the life you’re needing to come to.

They will truly get you

Since you’re both so similar, they will quickly grow to know you better than anyone else in your life. They will understand you and why you work the way you work. They will truly get you and you will truly get them. You both will know each other so well, you may find yourselves finishing each others’ sentences and you will just feel understood.

You’re both on the same wave length

You both will feel the same energetic connection. You will show the same or similar energies.

You are a better person with them

They will make you want to be the best version of yourself that you can be. You will find that you are the best version of yourself when they are around.



There are many ways to speculate if someone is your twin flame, but if you feel someone is yours but they don’t feel the same, they likely aren’t. If they are, there will be no doubt about it. It doesn’t mean you have to be with them as romantic partners, not all twin flames are meant to share their whole lives together, but some are. Some are meant to come into your life and bring on personal growth then leave. They will leave a lasting impact on you no matter how long they are in your life.



Learning Astrology is Easier Than It Seems

Astrology comes across as being a very detailed and can even feel intimidating to learn, but it is easier than it seems. There is much more to it than just the sun sign and moon sign. There are all the other planets, which all have different effects on your life.


Mercury is communication- that also includes your ability to adapt to new technologies.

Venus shows how well you handle relationships and what your relationship style is. That goes for not only romantic relationships, but also friends and even family.

Mars is your ambition as well as your drive to career. Mars is the most aggressive of the signs, so it shows what you’re passionate most about.

Jupiter shows your luck. It shows when you’re most lucky in life and it also shows where you are most giving.

Saturn shows work ethic and what you’re like as a worker

Uranus shows how original you are and your creativity

Neptune shows your spiritual side and

Pluto shows your ability to conform to others. Pluto is also the planet of death and rebirth. It can show areas of transformation.

Charon shows your deepest injuries from early childhood, even past lives that lives on in you today.

Black Moon Lilith, as some people call her, represents darker subjects and topics that are more taboo. She shows areas where you have problems throughout life in terms of topics like sexuality.

North Node is the area of your life where you are naturally talented. You have strongly developed this area in past lives, so you do not need to work further on developing this- but it can be overdeveloped to the point of over focus and lead to underused of other traits

South Node is the underdeveloped area where you need to focus on developing. You need this trait but it will require further work in order to grow it.



Conjunctions happen when two planets are aligned in the same sign. They compliment each other typically and if they are perfect, they are even stronger. This aspect will magnify the effects of the signs and make them stronger.

For the most part, conjunctions are positive but there are some negative connotations and more challenging signs but they are all vital to your soul’s overall growth and your overall personality.


Sextiles are favorable. They are complementary placements that happen when two planets are two signs apart in the chart. They are always energetically complementary so they work well together in the chart and add an extra synergy.


Squares are typically unfavorable placements. This happens when the planets are three signs apart, so they don’t work well together. This creates confusion in the chart and the planets do not align well.

This will show the darker sides of the planets as opposed to the better sides and more complimentary positions.


Oppositions are when the planets sit 180 degrees from each other. They are rough to deal with, but they are also easier than a square.

They can push two extremes and swing wildly, but they can also be compatible at the same time.


Trines are the final aspect. They are formed by the planets being four signs apart. They are always signs in the same element, so they are very favorable and compatible.

When looking at a trine, it’s the strongest connection (Earth with Earth, air with air, etc)

This placement is even better than a sextile and is a very positive sign to have in your chart.


There is a lot that goes into properly reading a natal chart, but once you get that down, you will see that with practice you’re able to get a better grasp on everything.


Astrology seems to be a highly detailed and complex topic, and it is, but it is easy to understand once you have the information about the basics down. In this course, I’m giving you the information to learn what you need to know to be able to understand your own natal chart as well as read other natal charts for others.


The book and course both will cover these topics to go fully in depth.

Chapter 1- The Basics of Astrology: What is a Natal Chart? What Are the Houses?

Chapter 2- The Basics of Astrology: What is your Sun Sign?

Chapter 3- The Basics of Astrology: What is your Moon Sign?

Chapter 4- The Basics of Astrology: What is your Mercury Sign?

Chapter 5- The Basics of Astrology: What is your Venus Sign?

Chapter 6- The Basics of Astrology: What is your Mars Sign?

Chapter 7- The Basics of Astrology: What is your Jupiter Sign?

Chapter 8- The Basics of Astrology: What is your Saturn Sign?

Chapter 9- The Basics of Astrology: What is your Uranus Sign?

Chapter 10- The Basics of Astrology: What is your Neptune Sign?

Chapter 11- The Basics of Astrology: What is your Pluto Sign?

Chapter 12- The Basics of Astrology: Charon and Lilith

Chapter 13- The Basics of Astrology: North and South Nodes

Chapter 14- The Basics of Astrology: Aspects Explained: conjunctions

Chapter 15- The Basics of Astrology: Aspects Explained: Trines

Chapter 16- The Basics of Astrology: Aspects Explained: Oppositions and Squares

Chapter 17- The Basics of Astrology: Aspects Explained: Sextiles

Chapter 18- Astrology for Career

Chapter 19- Astrology for Love

Chapter 20- Astrology for Life

Chapter 21- Astrology for Health and Wellness

Chapter 22- Astrology for Well Being

Chapter 23- All About the Signs: Aries

Chapter 24- All About the Signs: Taurus

Chapter 25- All About the Signs: Gemini

Chapter 26- All About the Signs: Cancer

Chapter 27- All About the Signs: Leo

Chapter 28- All About the Signs: Virgo

Chapter 29- All About the Signs: Libra

Chapter 30- All About the Signs: Scorpio

Chapter 31- All About the Signs: Sagittarius

Chapter 32- All About the Signs: Capricorn

Chapter 33- All About the Signs: Aquarius

Chapter 34- All About the Signs: Pisces


Attraction Series

Can You Find Your Twin Flame? How to find either a soul mate or your twin flame

Most people say they dream about meeting their soulmate, what they really want to meet is their twin flame. A soul mate is meant to teach you a lesson in life, while the twin flame is the second half of your soul. You have many soul mates that come and go from your life while you only ever have one twin flame. Is there a way to speed up meeting your twin flame?

The big thing is that you have to be ready. You have to know that you are ready to meet the one. One of the best things to do is to get the past pain out of your mind. Remember that you were hurt in the past, yes, but this new person is not the one who hurt you.

Once you accept that not every man (or woman) who has come into your life is going to hurt you. You were hurt by one particular individual (which wasn’t meant to be “the one”) and you need to accept that not everyone is the same then you will meet the person you’re meant to spend your life with.

Nothing is guaranteed. Lives are lost daily and people are left, even at the alter. Not every relationship is meant to be forever, but all relationships are meant to be for that time.

You need to have your mind open to meeting the one. You need to be open to allowing yourself to open up. You have to open yourself to the possibility of being hurt. If you really want to love someone you have to be open to it.

You cannot truly love if you can’t let go of the past. It’s not fair to future partners if you go into each relationship feeling like they’re going to hurt you. To really be ready to meet your twin flame without crashing, your soul has to be ready. You have to know deep down in your heart that you are ready to settle down and be with one person for the rest of your life.

If you feel you’re ready, read on for some ideas and tips to meeting the one.

Spellwork to Meet Your Ideal Partner

There is a simple spell you can do to attract what you want. This worked for me and we have been married for almost 12 years now. I didn’t mean to do this spell, but I did remember after some time.

I took a piece of paper and wrote down every quality I could think of- I went as deep as what the man looked like, music he would listen to and interests. I wrote everything I could think of down on paper and marked the deal breakers. I then kept the piece of paper in a safe location but you also could burn the paper- burning gets your intention out in the air faster, while keeping it on you can help keep it close.

Just two days later, I met the man who fit the whole description literally walking down the street and we were inseparable for years. We have two kids and have built a life together. He truly is my twin flame.

Meditation Method to Become Ready

Another method to meeting a soul mate (or even your twin flame) is to do deep work on yourself. There is no spell or ritual to meet this person- you have to be ready. Make sure you’re truly ready to meet the one.

Clear your mind and heart of past hurt and work to heal from the broken hearts of the past. Trust that all the failed relationships are building you up to truly finding the one you’re meant to be with so that when you find this person, you will appreciate it. You will learn from past pain and appreciate the way this person makes you feel.

Make sure you’re truly open to meeting someone new. Do a few meditations over the course of several months.

Do a meditation to clear your heart chakra. Make sure you don’t have a blockage. Do a meditation to heal your heart. When you do that meditation, clear your mind of the pain from your latest break up. Clear your mind of the pain of the worst heartbreak. Take everything people have ever said to you- if anyone ever told you you’re too picky or you will never find someone who will love you like they did. Wipe those thoughts away. Remember that all relationships that fail are building up to the one you’re meant to be in.

They fail because they’re not meant to be. Once you do meet that person, you will need a clear heart. You will need the child like innocence you had when you entered your first relationship. You will need to see that person through the eyes you had when you first fell “in love” with the first person who hurt you. They need to see that excitement and vulnerability because it will be real.

Clear all negative thoughts out of your mind and make sure you’re truly open to letting someone come in. You will never meet your twin flame (or worse, it will crash and burn) until you’re truly ready to allow them to come in. If you’re not ready, it will burn too intense and you will find that you are not ready.

You will need to be ready to give the relationship your all if you want to meet and be with your twin flame.


There is no secret spell or magical way to attract your twin flame but with a cleared heart and the true, burning desire, you will make it more likely to meet him/her. You need to prepare and heal your own hurt, heartache and heartbreak in order to really find that one person who truly completes you. A soul mate will provide a strong connection. The twin flame will make you complete. The twin flame will feel like someone you have known your whole life and you have likely crossed paths with throughout your lives.

You may find they are in and out of your life, but you’re always ready to forgive and move on. They help you grow and they grow with you. When you finally meet them, you will be ready to grow on a new level, even if they aren’t with you forever in this life, you will continue to think about them and potentially talk to them and when the time is right, you might end up with them.



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